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1. I know that sounds harsh and mean, but sometimes a young man will mainly use texting because you are not a priority.

2. He may desire to have sex with you but for some young women all it takes is some texting to get her in bed.

3.There are some cases where you may not start off as priority but you get “promoted” to the top spot. So initially while he hasn’t fully determined your value to him, you may still mainly get texts instead of phone calls, which take more effort and time. You as the young  woman has to set your price, and then he will decide if he wants to pay it or not.

If you notice I didn’t get deeper into a young man just being too busy. People make time for what they want or feel they need to make time for. If a young woman accepts less, then most young men will give less, and you can’t blame him for getting less. Also take heed to the main message in the first reason. If you have an issue with texting then you have to say it.

Not every young man who starts off texting is doing that because he isn’t interested in you. It just may be what he is accustomed to and does not realize there is an issue. If you make it known, time passes, and it is still the same. Well now it’s safe to come to the conclusion that he isn’t serious enough about being with you. Don’t get mad at a man for a lack of communication if you are not willing to properly communicate. Make it clear what you desire and allow him the opportunity to step up to the plate. If he doesn’t well then maybe you can send him a text goodbye on his way out : ).

With that Being Said...

We Don’t Feel Like Talking to You

1. It is quick and convenient; so we take advantage of that fact. 

2.  If she doesn't say she hates it, we wont stop.

3. As long as you received a message from him and some form of communication, well then mission accomplished.

We Don’t Like You Like That

​1. Sometimes we hear womp womp womp so we just send you a text may feel is pointless.

2. It could also save us from some incessant nagging.

3. It helps us avoid some unnecessary talk and backlash, "I’ll just text her for now until she cools down”.  

3 Reasons Why Young Men Choose Text Messages Over Phone Calls

We Text Because We Can

In today’s age of technology our phone is our computer, organizer, video game player, camera, and more. Lost in all of that is its original function, the ability to call and speak to someone with your voice. The main replacement to our phone voice conversations is the text message. So simple and convenient, it has changed how we communicate in everyday life and especially in our “relationships”. So lately I have received the same question from so many young women. Why do young men text instead of just calling? Does it mean he isn’t interested? Does it mean he is just too busy? 

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